How do you feel about baby showers for child #2?

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#1 written by Paisley Jane due 2/14/10
about 2 years ago

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I feel every woman deserves a shower with each pregnancy, to honor the expectant mother.
#2 written by ?**•.¸Girl Due 1/21/10¸.•**?
about 2 years ago

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I do Not think it appropriate.. especially in this economy I think it’s rather selfish but that is simply my opinion..
#3 written by mama of 1
about 2 years ago

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i dont see a problem with it. i know lots of people that did that
#4 written by MommaA
about 2 years ago

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There are a lot of variables to consider. If the babies are different sexes or it has been over 5-6 years between children, typically a small intimate baby shower is not considered taboo.

On the other hand, if the children are the same sex and only a couple years apart, it would seem kind of selfish.

In the end it is completely up to you. You know your friends and family and they may want to throw you one regardless. Congrats on #2!
#5 written by Des
about 2 years ago

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I don’t think there is anything wrong with having a baby shower for your other child on the way. Especially if there are stuff that you need for your new baby. I would say throw one because it is mostly in celebration of bringing a new life into the world not just about free stuff. I don’t see a problem with having a baby shower for baby number 2. You could never be too prepared for baby. There will always be stuff you need and a baby shower helps you get things you may need.
#6 written by Heather [new mommy!]
about 2 years ago

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If baby #2 is a different gender, or its been more than 4 years then I think it is perfectly acceptable!

If not, I still think there should be a party, just not a party soley for the sake of gifts.

But by all means accept any baby shower or gifts thrown your way!
#7 written by Mowi3
about 2 years ago

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I have just been discussing this same topic recently & thinking how it kind of sucks for the 2nd kid to get shafted w/out having a baby shower & getting new things. I think each child is a blessing & should be honored & acknowledged by having a shower or some sort of celebration. Maybe you could have a more intimate shower w/ just close family who wouldnt have a problem w/ coming. I would be happy if someone threw me a shower, my mom is for my baby (which is my first) and Im ecstatic that she is wanting to be involved. Best of luck!
#8 written by Ryee-- Due 12.17.09
about 2 years ago

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i think its fine if they baby is a different gender and at least a few years apart. If someone plans it for you anyways there really isn’t much you can do about that lol
#9 written by Baby girl due March 2010?
about 2 years ago

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Why would the second child not deserve nice, new things and a celebration just like the first? If I were to have a second, my registry lists would change to account for big things I already have (a pack-and-play, a crib, a bottle warmer), but I don’t see anything wrong with registering for a few new things (clothes, binkies, diapers). Most importantly, I think there should be another party to celebrate you and the beautiful new life you’re growing! Parties are about sharing this experience, not about worry what’s “proper”

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